The Power Of Fear

As I sit to write today, I have no idea what to type. For the first time ever, I seem blank, because after all these years of living and experience among human beings(unfortunately, I'm one of them), the problem with them is fear. Either we are talking of conquering fear or backing of from it, just talking about it. Someone is afraid of doing something because, he might not know what he wants, someone might just be confused, the other might know what he wants, but he just might be afraid of what might happen if he asked for it, someone is afraid to step up and do the right thing. This is all the wrong way, you cannot conquer fear, you cannot back off, it is part of our emotions, one of the things we do, it is programmed in us. Learn to embrace fear, learn that we cannot run away from it. It is one of our best emotions.

If we back off from fear, than how shall we know it's importance, how shall we know its power? Its power to push us forward?

Don't get me wrong, I don't mean for you to be scared, I just mean, that first, you should not be afraid to make choices, if you have to be rational, accept the fact, if you have to make a choice make it, don't think about whether or not you'll have to regret it later on, you might not get this choice later then. Embrace your fear, embrace the fact that if you lose the other option, then it shouldn't matter to you, because any ways, what you lose, is lost, you cannot gain it back. Embrace the fear, to take the step forward, be self aware, that taking this step forward is the right decision, because only then can you move forward.

Don't be afraid is a lie. If you are not afraid, then how will you know whether or not the decision you are taking is important or not?

How will you drink the water from the well if you already decide it's poisoned? How do you know it's poisoned? Did someone die in front of you due to that well?

I think not. Accept that you are afraid because you have to. Take the decision in that fear, not in confusion, not in panic, in fear. Panic arouses from fear and confusion, decision rises from fear.

Whoever told you fear makes you negative is either a fool or a coward, because he was either spoon fed or is an idiot. Fear will make you the person you need to be. Don't think about making a mistake though,  if you don't make a mistake how will you learn? How will you know about the right and wrong?

Make mistakes, make decisions. Be afraid, embrace your fear, get things done and get your life the way you want it, staying in your comfort zone won't get you anywhere.